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New : September 2021
Ecological footprint and passive violence : the importance of our individual action
From the TedX conference of Arun Gandhi, proposed in video, which introduces
the notion of passive violence; this article proposes to create links
between the realities presented in the news, and our daily actions. Our
consumption is not without consequences on what occurs in the world. Through
consumption we have learned to practice passive violence. Our culture
conditions us to this and encourages us to kindly look away from our responsibilities
facing the realities of suffering and destruction that this engenders.
Hundreds of millions of people have died of hunger or malnutrition in
the world, and even more are living in misery right now while we live
as if all this did not exist. As long as we are not able to take off our
blinders and face this, making the link with our own everyday behaviors
; hundreds of millions of people will continue to suffer and disappear
in almost general indifference.
Changing our perspective of these facts, and adopting a new attitude awakens
our humanity and allows us to change our behaviors by reducing our ecological
footprint in a more coherent way. By adopting this more realistic perspective,
a whole path then opens up before us to change, on our scale, what can
still be changed.
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New : November 2018
You are the placebo: healing through the transformation of thoughts
Dr. Joe Dispenza addresses topics such as visualization, meditation,
the law of attraction, applications of quantum physics in personal evolution;
and he does so through the lens of neuroscience. He tells us about the
plasticity of the brain, our ability to create or remove neuronal connections,
our ability to activate or deactivate our genes, and the important interaction
between our cells, our body and our thoughts and emotions, and - the most
important aspect: the interest in better managing these thoughts and emotions,
in order to transform both our mind and our health. His book is full of
examples, studies, experiences that illustrate his theories. In this book
he brings the idea that we can reach health through our will and the ability
to direct our thoughts and emotions by changing our beliefs, and use that
as we use a placebo.
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New : November 2018
It is at the heart of our defects that sits the most beautiful part of
our humanity. Because they can be at the source of our finest qualities.
Rather than fighting them or hiding them, knowing and acknowledging them
allows us to discover the qualities that are hidden just behind, and helps
us to better blossom.
The benefit is not so much the discovery of quality as the look on oneself
and on others, that changes, allowing to discern in the other, behind
his/her weaknesses, his/her share of humanity.
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New : October 2018
Presentation of Voluntary Simplicity
Voluntary simplicity is a personal choice that consists of orienting
our life towards a material, intellectual, psychological and spiritual
life, which is closer to our real needs and our real values, for ourselves,
for others, and for the planet.
Everyone who walks in this direction does it in his own way, at his own
pace, choosing certain priorities over others, it belongs to him-her.
If the choice is personal and the action that results is a priori individual,
they stimulate solidarity, exchanges, generosity, friendliness. ... read
the article
New : September 2018
The anger behind the violence, no matter what scale it is perpetrated, is generated by the fear we have of the perpetrators of this same violence. The fear of violence is therefore capable of generating an equally destructive and murderous violence as the one it is trying to fight. It is then necessary to seek in the area of the fears if we want to succeed in defusing violence. Both : ours, even if we didn't put them in action; as those of the persons who have already perpetrated them; in order to stop feeding a perpetual vicious circle, terribly murderous. ... read the article
New : September 2018
"True peace begins with observation and acceptance of our own violence"
Here is the summary of Pema Chödron's Book : "Practicing peace
in times of war"
The idea of the book is that violence around us, is is only a reflection
the violence that is in us. If we are able to observe, to manage this
violence inside us, when refusing to run at once into escalation, we can
manage to reduce our own violence, but also the general violence to a
higher degree than that of a Cartesian equation (7 billions minus 1).
And the violence that we are talking about is also minimal violence :
frustration, tickling, reactions to the small provocations of life. It's
even there that everythings starts. This summary is complementing the
article "From opposition to non-violence".
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New : September 2018
Argumentation and power relation
We all have, and in a unique way for everyone, our own perception of
the world and of ourselves. In our relationships with our entourage (as
individuals, associations or citizens), we will confront our perception
with that of our partners. And there are two major trends in how to do
it: looking for common ground or to be on the same page, or trying to
be right (meaning : trying to prove the other is wrong). This is reflected
in our ways of talking, in our arguments, in the negotiations, as well
as in our means of action. The chosen attitude will influence our relationships,
the people involved, and the choice of solutions during conflicts.
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New : 07/29/2018
Taking a step aside by learning to observe our thoughts without identifying
with them enables to create a much greater freedom of thinking, to make
room for humility and also for caution about our own opinions, knowledges
and beliefs. And this especially enables us to access new dimensions of
ourself and to have a very different impact in our lives.
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New : 07/29/2018
Another look at dementia and at the preservation of youth
This text proposes an approach to dementia through knowledge of ourself
and of our thoughts. We are the result of our automatisms. And the more
time goes by, the more these will take power in our lives. Better understanding
this mechanism of automatization of our mental functioning can help us
to learn how to manage our mental differently, in order to avoid that
this process overtake us too quickly. It's from the beginning of life
that something has to be done.
And by better understanding these mechanisms we can learn to better understand
and interact with older people and people with dementia. These latter,
if they have lost their autonomy, their ability to reason and express
themselves, have lost none of their knowledge, their personality and their
experience. Considering things in this way enables to deal with them in
a very different way and to restore respect, contact, trust and the emotional
part of the relationship.
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Many of us spend our time, buying, eating, working, sleeping, consuming, running between the appointments of our diary.... And we don't have time to breathe, nor time to think, nor time to make choices, nor time to do questionings, nor the time to make realizations and even less time to evolve ..... or to love really, in a different way than through gifts or avoided conflicts.
The whirlwind of our lives has a numbing effect on us and makes us more
malleable to external influences. Less we are able to think for ourselves,
the more we will tend to adopt the prevailing ready-to-think, without
realizing that the opinions it suggests to us don't correspond in any
way to ourselves.
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It is our complacency to the
system which allows it to perpetuate
Our complacency leads us to hold capitalism, the rich, the political and
business leaders, as responsible for all the harm of the system, without
truly realizing, not only that our own mentality is working on the same
mode of thinking as the one which we are denouncing, but also that we get
certain advantages of this system, which enslave us and force us to participate
actively to it without realizing it.
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Have you ever tried
the rice experiment?
You may have heart of it if you are familiar with the concept of "water
memory" introduced by Professor Emoto.
This experiment may lead to see and understand that our thoughts and intentions
may have a concrete effect on the good conservation of cooked rice, for
weeks or even months. Living this implies not only to believe it, but
also to understand the implications that are related to all levels of
our lives.
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From opposition to non-violence
The opposition generates : opposition, or submission ..... temporarily.
This is actually already at the level of the way of thinking behind the
attitude of opposition that we miss our goals. For, by opposing, we impede,
and sometimes, we even prevent us reaching our goals. Our attitude is
leading to behaviors that often can not be accepted by the interlocutor.
For, the opposition is a serious obstacle to dialogue and negotiation.
In the worst cases it can stop the communication, and give way to strategies
of violence.
The opposition occurs in the register of the balance of power.
Non-violence in its essence, is not opposed to individuals. It simply
does not work with what is the problem.
The process of non-violence consists in saying, "I do not agree with
you, I can therefore not cooperate with your actions, and I will do everything
to get what I want, but I never will make you any harm to get it: I will
do nothing in the kind of contempt, destruction, slander, etc. and I accept
all the consequences that you decide to inflict me, including that of
not getting anything, losing freedom, or even losing life. I will just
maintain my position until we can talk and find a solution that suits
both of us. "
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From the hundredth monkey to
the morphic fields – From the legend to the scientific hypothesis
Maybe you already know the 100th monkey phenomenon, this observation by scientists in Asia in the '50s, concerning the transmission of learning from a community of monkeys to other communities without any known means of communication between monkeys involved.
The theory of biologist Rupert Sheldrake on morphic fields corroborates
in part the phenomenon of the hundredth monkey.
While we usually think that our memory is located in our brain, that our
genes are responsible for inherited traits and that our thoughts are only
the consequence of chemical and electrical phenomena inside the brain,
Sheldrake postulates that it is otherwise.
The changes that we introduce into our lives at an individual level would
then have an effect around us even if we don't reveal them or communicate
about them.
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A plate for our
health, the one of the planet and of all its inhabitants
Our plate perfectly reflects the state of the planet. If we look at food
on it, its nature (meat, vegetable), its quality (organic, industrial),
its origin (local, distant), its mode of production (ethical or not),
the journey that it has made to reach us (1 km by bike or 10,000 km by
plane), or the changes it has undergone (irradiation, cooking, preservation,
packaging, ....);
we can therefore determine the quality of life of those who produced it,
the rate of pollution it has generated, the amount of water and energy
it requires to mature, the harm or benefits that it does to our health,
the damages it has caused to the environment.
Most of the food that arrives on the plate of an average Western consumer
has contributed significantly to a negative impact in all areas. This
is not inevitable. Daniel Cauchy offers several concrete ways to change
that.
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